Why Not? Part 2: Sexuality

In this modern era, people think there is only one way of doing things. One way of being human. One way of life. A way people try and show this is by judging sexuality. This is only one of the ways that prejudice rules the world. Sexuality is how we dress, how we act, how we think.. and it's also what genders we're attracted to. In this world, the young people use "gay" or "homosexual" as an insult. True, I have grown up with these people, who think that being yourself is unacceptable. But I think that being yourself is a good thing. I have many homosexual or bisexual friends, and I can say that they are just like you or me. They just have different sexual orientations.  See, people decide that just because a person likes a member of the same sex, that they are somehow dis-human in a way. They feel threatened. They feel like they have a disease, that they might catch.
As an example, Russia's anti-gay laws have affected the country to a huge extent. Laws against sexuality are a violation of human rights. People are people. And if a person cannot be with the person they love, how can they go on pretending everything's fine?
They can't.
Another reason I brought this up is because I think that homosexuality is used in terrible ways. I have a really close friend who was called gay because he never found the perfect girl for him. He started believing it. But now he's a talented musician, half trained in psychology, a magician, and he's found the love of his life. People use homosexuality to make people feel small, and drive them to the edge. To pick up the gun, and place it to their temple. The problem is that even with all this proof that sexuality doesn't make you a terrible person, people still judge. They always judge.
Hopefully America wakes up.

Why Not? (Part 1 of 5) : Sexual abuse and Rape

This is an essay I will be writing on the problems in today's culture. As a five part essay, it will cover Sexual Abuse and Rape, Sexuality laws and judgement, Poverty, Environmental issues, and Depression and bullying. Living in an environment where all of this is apparent, I think I will be able to cover all these bases from an honest and factual point of view. But these posts will be opinionated. If you cannot handle a person's opinion, I suggest you leave and let the door hit you on the way out.

So, here is, Why Not?

Sexual Abuse and Rape

This is a current issue in our society. Rape and sexual abuse occur every day. Imagine sitting at home, past midnight, waiting for your friend or sibling or child to come home, worried sick, while they are being hurt, and used. Abused. 

Sexual abuse isn't a joke. It damages the victim permanently, and will leave a mental, and sometimes physical, scar on them. Sexual abuse is the action of touching, kissing, hugging, or having sex with someone against their will. This is done either for pleasure or for revenge. Normally it is the first, but a sexual vendetta isn't unheard of.
Rape occurs multiple times every day, globally. They are just not publishing the stories. Why? Because unless the victim is famous, the attacker is famous, or their is a HUGE scandal, no one cares.

But, if this issue is so apparent, why is it still allowed to happen?

Technically, it is illegal. But you can't teach an old dog new tricks, and people do think they are above the law. Laying a hand on someone, man or woman, if they say no, it is illegal, and it can be reported. It is rape, even if they originally said yes. In the end, if the answer is no, BACK OFF! 

Now, I understand that sexual abuse can occur in the home. And I feel sorry for whoever has to go through that. It makes me sick to imagine the male head of house abusing his authority just to get some physical pleasure. It's disgusting.
The reason this still happens is the result of fear, and ignorance. People are too scared to tell someone what's happening. And then there's the general ignorance of the public, the law, and the government. If they raise the security of the country and apply a bit more focus on Sexual abuse and rape, we might be able to slowly bring it to a stop.
But don't hold your breath. People are idiots.

Self-esteem

As most people know, self-esteem rules our lives. Self-esteem is that wonderful aspect that comes in with adolescence, (along with the masturbation and the periods) that rules what we do, how we act, what we say...
It's practically the Hitler of puberty.
Now, self-esteem can be VERY HIGH, VERY LOW, or you just have a balanced self-esteem which is just like, "meh, let's just follow the crowd."
A very high self-esteem helps with confidence and feeling good about oneself, but this leads to vanity in most cases, and bitchiness, third degree rude girling, oh, and just being an incompetent, snarky teenager. Of course, these people are always very popular and very, very hot most of the time.
A balanced self-esteem is normally in people who don't really have opinions. They just go with whatever the high esteemed people say. This leads to what I like to call sheepism. I can't imagine a duller existence.
And then there is the low self-esteem. This is normally the reason people are self-concious, nervous, and, of course, depressed. I, being a slightly low self-esteemed person, understand what it's like to go through depression. At times, I look in the mirror and see an ugly, chubby girl looking back at me. And I do not know if that is an illusion or if it is the truth. Because people lie. They will say you're nice when you look terrible. Or they mean it. You just cannot tell the two apart. Basically, I have a case of dysmorphism.
Dysmorphism effects many people. I have been told by the love of my life that I am thin, and beautiful. But why do I not believe him? Because with low self-esteem, some people get bullied, or insulted.
And no one realises this is why we commit suicide. We cannot take life with this problem anymore.

Cracking under the pressure

School.
Work.
Sport.
Social life.
Creative activities.
Reading.
Oh, and you have two essays. Due tomorrow. In two different languages.
That's what most high school and university students are going through right now. Everyone just EXPECTS that you can keep up. Well, let me tell you, IT ISN'T THAT SIMPLE!
I take 12 subjects. Two of those subjects are languages, seven are mathematical, historical or scientific, and three others are artistic. I have two tests left this term. Life Sciences and Drama.
Most people would expect Drama to be easy.
YOU ARE SOOOOOOO WRONG!
We had to write out a 13 page essay, and that is what we have to study. For fifty percent of our term mark. A test. THIS FUCKING WEEK!
Theatre Spaces, Ancient theatres, Medieval, Renaissance, Industrial Revolution AND Modern Theatre.
But the problem is, that parents or teachers or professors still expect you to be social, athletic, and academically active. AND they want you to get eight hours of sleep. I haven't slept for SIX hours in WEEKS. No wonder sports are killing me.
I, being a magician, a fencer, a writer AND a well rounded academic pupil (well, at least I like to think that), have a really hard time keeping up. It's insane.
Oh, there's also the fact that I have to live with an annoying family, little siblings, terrible bitches that insult me, AND because I'm a girl, there's the whole, body hair and periods problem.
Yep.
I think boys are actually luckier during adolescence. I'm not saying they have it easier, but they do.
Yeah, that's where I was getting to.
-The Galactic Piperinsanity